035: Taking action is the way out (feat. ilys and seanwes)

Transfer is action. Explaining a new thing is when you transfer knowledge, experience or plain information and therefore take action.

As I experienced myself, when you are thinking too much and you are running in circles, your time would be better spent on doing things, meeting people, shaking hands, and so on.

In most cases, your thought games are tricking you. You can never win. Your thoughts use your unclarity against you whereas the only way to gain clarity is by making an active effort to achieve revelation.

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033: I like you because you do

I like you because you do. Unconditional sympathy is only the start when the magic formula is know-like-trust.

About (un)conditional sympathy

You hired a professional who is doing a great job. His name is Ramon. He delivered what he promised. The conversations with him are serious and to the point. He is not a big small talker. Sometimes you wonder how he reacted if you threw a joke at him. Would he say something or just let the moment pass in uncomfortable silence? He would probably take a long breathe and wait for another question you have.

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