041: Reverse-engineer from death to now for a life free of regrets

Regret has no remorse. Talk to a person who is about to die, ask about his regrets and listen carefully. You will know what resonates most and take action.

You do not want to regret anything in your life. What you have been regretting already you want to stop growing to not become this enormous heap of sadness that makes you burst into tears every time you realize its sheer size.

So no more regret is the goal. The best place to start having a regret-free life is by talking to people who are on their way towards the end of their life. If you have no chance of talking to older people your second-best bet is to read „The Top 10 Regrets Of The Dying“.

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039: Give feedback like a Trojan Horse

Manners matter, also in email.

Or, how to write an email with manners so it matters.

You can give feedback shouting and be angry or you can propose something with a calm and understanding tone, and yet deliver the same message but in a nicer package.

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